Contact me if you can: Spectacular accessories for bondage
Text: Tatyana Nikonova, author of Sam Jones's Diary sex blog
Binding is a very common sex practice. and an even more common sexual fantasy, 46% of men and 52% of women dream of it. Moreover, the restriction of mobility is quite harmless, it is enough to allow yourself (or get such permission from a partner) to remain in a passive role and just enjoy what is happening. The inability to do anything actively aggravates the sensations and expands the experience of trust - unless, of course, the partner initially deserved trust. What and how to use for binding?
Jute rope
60 rubles per square meter
The rope is the most obvious idea, but also the most difficult to implement. Use ropes made from natural fibers only: synthetic fibers can burn the skin. Do not take rough ropes for people with sensitive skin and with already existing irritations, it is better to take cotton. Do not knit complicated knots if you are not sure that you can unravel. Always keep scissors nearby just in case. Make sure that you can easily stick a finger or two between the rope and the body, otherwise you will not avoid traces and pain. This is especially true of the ankles and wrists: inept bondage often leads to prolonged loss of sensitivity, and in general it is a frequent source of neurological problems.
Vinyl tape
800 rubles
Ten meters of tape, which is glued to itself, is a great thing to tie up anything, from it you can even make a dress or underwear (unfortunately, disposable). Just as with the rope, leave extra space between the ribbon and the body. Take scissors with round ends to avoid accidentally injuring your partner. Do not try to fix complex shapes from an unprepared person - everything instantly becomes numb. Just imagine if you can hold out for at least ten minutes in this position. Not? So do not offer a partner. By the way, you can even make a mask over your eyes, it does not stick to your hair either.
Transformer belt
$179
Collaboration of The Stockroom, the famous fetish sex shop, and guitarist Dave Navarro, who played Red Hot Chili Peppers and Nine Inch Nails. A hand-assembled leather belt with steel rings holds a guitar and, if necessary, transforms into a collar and a device for "hay-thai" - fixed wrists and ankles. The potential danger is the risk of losing tiny keys from padlocks. Exit - order copies of spare and put them somewhere closer. For fans: the first 500 belts are signed by Navarro personally, and The Stockroom began to deliver to Russia.
Gagged and cuffed pillow
£750
Leather cylinder-pillow is used as follows: lie on your back, stick your head under the gag and take it in your mouth, hands are fixed in handcuffs, let the rest be done by your partner. The gag is attached to a belt that can be detached, so if you don’t like these things, there’s no problem getting rid of it. Or, on the contrary, you unfasten and use for its intended purpose separately from the pillow. True, you still can’t call the budget multifunctional thing, the manufacturer Fleet Ilya creates luxurious sex devices and leather lingerie of excellent quality, wonderful forms and space prices.
Suspension to the ceiling
6610 rubles
Compound device, which requires a hook in the ceiling (hook included in the set). If the chandelier has not yet been hung and there is a place or it was possible to allocate a special room for various interesting devices, fasten the hook on the ceiling and hang the attached belt with braces on it. The last without any locks there, are fastened on a flypaper, it is easy to get out independently if necessary. Important: you do not have to hang with your wrists clamped, there are special crossbars inside which you can hold onto. And what to do with a hanging partner is up to you.
Hands hold to door
7756 rubles
Pipedream's Fetish Fantasy brand is the most prominent supplier to the Russian market of convenient fixing devices and games in light BDSM. Their white boxes with desperately merry couples in black and with free eye mask are in every sex shop, and they really have a lot of simple and effective products. For example, this thing - belts with cuffs at one end and nubs at the other. Throw the second end through the door, close it - and voila, you have hanging straps with cuffs. Fix the hands of your partner and in a few seconds, take off and hide, if relatives of Volgograd suddenly descend, whose arrival you have completely forgotten. Inspect the door before buying: if there is a very large gap between it and the jamb, the belts will drive.
Universal door lock
5856 rubles
Without the "Fifty Shades of Gray" in this review nowhere. Another lock for the door with a bunch of useful. First, attached to the door and the top and bottom. Secondly, there are cuffs for both arms and legs, so if you have always dreamed of a little moaning on a wooden cross, but there is no place to put it, try a belt imitation on the door. Thirdly, the length of the belts is adjustable, so you can hang on doors of different heights. Fourthly, everything is detachable and can be used separately from the door, if you can’t see it anymore, as well as with other sets for fixing the same series.
Bed mounts
4420 rubles
By the end of the review and got to bed. A complex set of belts and padded velcro cuffs, allowing the person to be fixed on the bed in a star pose. Black color, red embroidery, and on the box is a half-naked girl and a man in a shirt. But, as we know, in reality, everything is different. The same survey about 46% of men and 52% of women showed that women often do not want to realize their own fantasies, but men are quite the opposite. Therefore, it is not yet known who in reality will more often be tied to the bed.
Photo: Fetish Company, Amoreo, Stockroom, Coco de Mer, Ann Summers, Miss Kinkie, Condom-Shop, Lovemag