"Only the booth windows were foggy": People about sex in public places
We already told where to have sex so much so that pleasant memories remain, not health or law problems. Now, different people have shared their personal experience of sex in public places - in the theater, in a hospital bed, under the noses of the Swedish police and in other non-obvious places - and appreciated the limits of their own and others' freedom.
Interview: Irina Kuzmichyova
Tatyana
I am attracted to the very idea of having sex where everyone else’s thoughts are occupied by others. I do not want to treat sex as an ordinary action like brushing your teeth. Always in bed, one script, the same words - such a daily ritual with a pillow under the waist will sometime become my salvation from insomnia. But while sex for me is a holiday that can be anywhere. Quick sex, uncomfortable poses, keep the necessary silence, and then you fix your hair and go out to the people. They can not imagine what was now. At such moments I feel young and carefree. The main thing is not to interfere with anyone and have a funny adventurer as a partner. In my student years, I had one.
We found places for sex everywhere. In the park, in the restaurant, in the store, at the institute, at sea, in the cinema - this is at least something that comes to mind on the move. Only once left awkward. On the common balcony of a residential building (the 25th floor, a breathtaking view of the night city), we were close to a climax when a woman saw us through the window and threatened to call the police. We decided that she envied us and left.
One of the favorite cases - at the university, where we studied together with a young man. We had a very strict teacher in the history of national journalism, it was almost impossible to pass his test. Fifteen minutes before the next re-take, we went to the machine to drink coffee, repeating tickets along the way. And they turned onto a narrow black staircase: they decided to go up and see what was above. There was a dead-end dark platform. We both realized that now will be, I instantly excited. On the question of who was the chief editor of the Moscow Telegraph, he reached out to my chest with his hand. While I told you that Baratynsky, Kireevsky, Zhukovsky and Bestuzhev participated in the magazine, I was tearing the pack off from the condom. He entered into me with the clarifying question of which of the Bestuzhevs, because there were four of them in the family. After a long kiss, I clarified that Bestuzhev-Marlinsky. Then we turned to the problems of the magazine "Telescope", accelerating with each word. He was in the back and whispered in his ear about feuilletons, which Pushkin wrote to the journal under the pseudonym "M. Kosichkin". I kept saying, "No, you are saying everything wrong." And when he finished, he recovered: "Pushkin wrote under the pseudonym Feofelakt Kosichkin." After that, we brought each other in order and with a slight delay entered the audience. I don’t remember if we passed the test that time.
Maria
When you are a lesbian and you practice mostly fingering, there are no problems with sex in non-standard locations. Moreover, the format allows not so much "burn", as it happens in heterosexual or gay couples. Although several times even in extreme places, like the toilet in the bar and the empty train compartment, I did cunnilingus.
A couple of years ago, a beautiful and big Ferris wheel with spacious transparent cabins was installed on the waterfront of Gdansk. The girl and I decided to go on one of the evenings and just took a booth in which no one but us was present. As it turned out, the wheel moves slowly and makes not one, but two full turns. We decided to take advantage of this, looking at the beautiful city with its night lights. Of course, due to the fact that the booths are transparent and there is a risk to get into the field of sight to the neighbors on the wheel, you don’t get too excited, but do you really need a lot of hands to unbutton your pants on your jeans, slide under the panties and bra? And in general, beauty is doubly double - a postcard view of the old city and intimacy with a beautiful girl. Only the windows of the booths were a little foggy.
The most unusual experience was sex on the bus, which carried journalists to the press tour to the odious camp "Seliger". The girl and I were young (the trip became part of the summer internship at the university) and always wanted each other. When we left Moscow, everyone was asleep on the bus. The girl was so nice, lightly dressed, outside the window - warm summer air and dark road. In general, we could not resist, and my hand was for a few tens of minutes in her underwear, and her lips - on the neck and chest. It amused me that Russia Today journalist was sleeping through the seat from us. So closely the "damned homosexuals" were not exactly chosen for him.
With the same girl was sex in the train compartment, in the cinema, on the night beach, in a room with other people. On the other - just on the street, around the corner from the bar "Lighthouse". Of course, it was a bit scary. Especially when sex occurred in institutions like a hospital or university. Still, doctors and teachers are better able to reprimand, condemn and watch evil. And they still have to intersect with them, these are not bystanders who are no longer to be met. On the other hand, the fear of being caught stirs up emotions and does not give the opportunity to slow down - we must act quickly. In the case of sex at the university, it was added that the door to the classroom did not close. A couple of minutes after we finished, the teacher entered. It seems that we then blush. There was no lock in the hospital ward either, and there was a risk that they would catch us. In the same way, I was lucky to finish and get dressed before the evening round of the doctors happened.
All cases were spontaneous. After several unusual locations for sex, I began to think that the list didn’t have enough aircraft, a fitting room in the store and religious backyard, may the believers forgive me.
It always seemed strange to me that for such actions, enthusiastic people could be fined or imprisoned for “hooliganism.” Well, surging feelings and desire, who does not happen. This is not about a special provocation (which is sometimes not bad either), but just spontaneous sex, when people try to go unnoticed. It just doesn't always work out.
Nastya
We with the young man (already former) went by train Moscow - Belgorod. Took two upper shelves in the coupe. I climbed over to the guy on the bed, began to watch a movie. And we are overtaken by an incredible desire to have sex. It was more convenient to do in the compartment than, for example, in the toilet. The train was night, our neighbors quickly fell asleep from the bottom. We would hardly have done this if there were children in the compartment. But we were lucky - fellow travelers turned out to be a couple of forty-five years old. Therefore, the moral and ethical side of the issue has disappeared by itself.
We were young and in love, now I would hardly have repeated this. But this is one of the most fun experiences in my life. Naturally, we were worried that people from below would wake up and catch us. But it even added emotion - I never received such vivid impressions of sex. When it was all over, I just climbed into my place and tried to sleep, but it did not work out. Excited and relished the details. I do not regret what happened, but, I repeat, now I would hardly have done so. With the control of feelings it became somehow simpler. In the end, there are much more pleasant and comfortable places where you can have sex.
Vladimir
This was not the first or last experience of sex in a public place, but the only one that happened was really unexpected. The previous experience was quite deliberate - we really wanted to try something unusual with a partner, so we specifically chose the beach or the forest. And near the police station in Stockholm, everything happened suddenly. It was a romantic period of our relationship, when nothing stops at all.
There was no fear of being caught, simply because the brain was not working in that direction at that moment. And it was in Sweden, where, in principle, you feel safe. A young man and I calmly walk there by the hands, like schoolchildren. And it seems everyone does not care. To be honest, that night there was another fear - to plunge into dog shit, because during the day pets are walking on the same lawn. Therefore, we tried to lay something out of clothes on the grass.
I can not say that sex in public places exacerbates sensations. In my opinion, sensations exacerbate strong feelings or the right partner, and not some external signs. And my experience (or is it already an age?) Suggests that after all the best place for sex is the bed. Although, if I were at the right time with the right person on the Field of Mars, maybe the story would be repeated.
As for the ethical aspect, I still believe that there is a framework of rationality and someone’s entertainment should not violate other people's borders. At the same time, I believe that in a healthy society, an accidentally seen sex scene can hardly harm the psyche of the child, but the lack of sex education is complete.
Veronica
When I began to remember where I had sex outside the house, it turned out that I “love, know, practice”. Anything happened in the toilet of the cafe and the toilet of the train, in the forest park, in the car, in the stairwell and in the cinema many times. But the most unexpected and “like in the movies” was sex literally under the roof of the house, only not its own, but the building in the center of the city. Despite the minus temperature, the degree of romance increased the date - December 31st. A man and I met in the city center to buy presents for relatives at the last moment. But instead of shops, they went to a cafe, which is located in the entrance of a residential building. Somewhere between pizza and coffee, we found ourselves holding hands and other parts of the body. By the way, despite the holiday, we have not started drinking yet, and we were only drunk from each other. Therefore, they went from the cafe not to the street, but up the stairs, stopping in each flight, kissing, unhooking each other more and more clasps and getting under clothes with cold hands.
So we went to the top floor. Above was only the iron door to the attic, where the dilapidated staircase led. The man went up to check, suddenly open. And I said that it could not be this, it’s so romantic that it will turn out, which is already disgusting. The door was open, but in the attic there was no one - perfect. For decency, we climbed onto the roof, shook from the beauty that was in front of our eyes, made a duty selfie. But they looked at each other unequivocally, as they had a joint experience of enchanting sex in a cinema hall, where there were ten viewers besides us (I still don’t know how the First Avenger: Opposition ended). So we went back to the attic and got down to business. It was cold, so we only had enough to pull the jeans. But that's enough. Fortunately, he had a condom with him, so nothing prevented him from enjoying spontaneity without consequences. During those beautiful minutes, I looked into the attic window at the darkening sky and the windows of the house opposite, and the street musician below sang quite tolerably about the heart, which stopped and went again. What at that moment ideally corresponded to the state of two troublemakers. After that we spent New Year's Eve together, although we did not plan. Spent, of course, in bed. And it was no worse than sex on the roof.
Alexander
I had sex in a public place twice in my life. The first time was on the beach. We are a big company went on nature. Between me and one of the girls, with whom I was almost a stranger, ran a spark. We chatted, danced, and then went to the water to watch the sunset. The conversation flowed into hugs, hugs into kisses, and kisses into spontaneous sex in the sand behind a wall of wild rose thickets. No one seems to have seen us. The second time happened at a sex party. In one night I slept with three girls in turn. There were a lot of same copulating couples and triples around, so I did not feel constraint.
In general, I am not a fan of such sex. Everything happens in a completely unprepared place for this, you are very uncomfortable, and you only think about getting to the final soon. Too many distractions that make it difficult to concentrate on their feelings and the girls. But, of course, here it is necessary to take into account that each such time I had with a new partner. Perhaps in established pairs it is a great way to experience new sensations, the range of feelings is still incredible.
Of course, it is desirable that no one becomes a casual witness of this action. Many will certainly be unpleasant to see this, and these people can be understood. In general, our culture is very intolerant to the physiological sphere of human behavior. What kind of sex - loudly sneeze and blow your nose can be far from everywhere, and this is all the natural processes of the body.
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