From childfrey to bad sex: 50+ answers to tough questions

We often ask difficult questions. and ask a variety of characters about their experiences. How does it feel to live with someone diagnosed with a mental disorder? What if a partner insists that you have to change, and what comes out of it? How did childfree women come to their choice and how do they cope with the reaction of others? We have collected answers to these and other questions - we invite you to look at them and form your own opinion.

People about the worst sex in their lives

"When, simultaneously with the orgasm, blood began to flow from my penis, I almost fainted. I wrapped the poor fellow with a napkin, sat down on my luxurious couch and just tried not to lose consciousness for a few minutes. When I came to, I signed up for an urologist at the hospital as soon as possible, dressed slowly (it was painful) and went to a session of humiliation "

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Adults remember how their parents punished them.

“When they are beaten up, it’s very scary. You expect another from mom and dad. Dad still doesn’t understand what was wrong. Mom just says that life was hard, but now she realized everything. There’s no violence in my current family, and I I will try to never have it. I would not wish such an experience to anyone, but I was able to break free "

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How feminists raise children

"The phrase" boys do not cry "is really malicious. In general, the whole story around the feelings - that they can be shown, it can be shown that it hurts you, that you can be weak - for boys it is absolutely forbidden. As a result, this leads to an increase in internal stress, which will be different: one in fights, the other through stress "

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What live school feminists

"In school, gender discrimination is clearly there, and often it comes from teachers. Sometimes it comes to nonsense. For example, we talked about choosing a profession, and I shared that I dream of becoming a tattoo master. The teacher just exploded: a whole lesson told me that master is not female profession "

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How to live with a person who has a mental disorder

"It is important that partners discuss the disease. Someone is ready to be treated, some are not. In aggravation, the person feels special, he likes it, and he does not want to lose this feeling. Are you ready to live with such a person? I would also advise weigh the financial possibilities: it is possible that the partner will be disabled for a long time "

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What mistakes parents we do not want to repeat

"I had to realize that the bar that I was set and which I sometimes put to the eldest child was greatly overestimated. There are no standards at all on the part of parents. Planks will put the world around us - teachers, coaches, they themselves, in the end - and mom just love and admire "

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How young people experience their poverty

"It is especially unpleasant when my fellow students or simply people from the Internet say that the poor are to blame for everything, that they should never give birth to children - as if they were lepers. Often I came across a persecution of large families, single moms, just poor families "

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Women about why they quickly divorced

"We divorced in six months. For my husband, this process was painful: we were together for a long time and he felt that I was a native to him. At trial, he wasn’t - went on a business trip. Now I think it might be worth trying to save family. It seems to me that this happens to many couples in about a year: the illusions disappear, and here we must either learn to look for resources or remove the stamp from the passport "

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Girls about whether to change for the sake of partners

"In this relationship, I was clay. My family and friends stopped recognizing me, even his relatives asked what I forgot with him. All our friends thought that he was tyrannizing me - but I loved him. Relationship ended because of mistrust, even though we have been together for five and a half years "

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Childfree girls about their choice

"Often, couples with children do not understand my point of view and try to impose their own. But people who have opted for the children have no right to condemn those who are not ready for such an enormous responsibility. For me, the freefrey is when you realize that you want to have a baby, because you have nothing to give him: no one in this union will be happy "

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