Correct bite: How to correctly choose a gag
TEXT: Tatyana Nikonova, author of Sam Jones's Diary sex blog
Gags have long been widely used in sex games, but while some lovingly silence partners, others only dream of it - the impossibility of talking excites and allows you to focus on pleasure. However, the choice is suitable specifically for you or your partner - not obvious thing. We tell you what rules you need to follow to shut up your mouth to the delight of all.
The first thing to remember: do not use gags if you or your partner have cardiovascular or pulmonary diseases, asthma, epilepsy or claustrophobia. The list of contraindications also includes any type of acute respiratory disease and jaw dislocation in the past. If all this is not about you, feel free to go to a well-known sex shop or a proven network: remember that everything thrust into it must be from high-quality materials, and in a small store that sells a nounaym, there may be different things.
A gag is a subject of individual use, like a toothbrush. If you can exchange saliva as much as you want with a regular partner, in other cases a separate item is bought, and not pulled out of the bins, they say, I have here such a thing, which is thrust into a variety of people. Do not this, and stories about disinfection do not be tempted.
Determine the purpose of the gag. If it is necessary that a person cannot say a word, the bulk of the gag is inside the mouth and fixes the lower jaw and tongue. For beginners, this option is unlikely to be pleasant - it is customary to use it in BDSM games, where physical and psychological discomfort is important. But sexual moaning from a partially closed mouth is very exciting and is unlikely to lead to injury. It is best to start with a snaffle — a soft wand upholstered in material that does not force you to keep your mouth wide open: you will not get tired of it and you will not be confused with the indignant sounds with the satisfied ones.
There are several important requirements for a ball gag. First, look for a hollow and with holes - so do not have to worry about the access of air. Secondly, choose the right size. Open your mouth as if you are going to bite off a large hamburger, hold it for about twenty seconds, then measure the distance between your teeth - this will be the maximum ball diameter of your gag. In fact, it is worth taking a finger less, otherwise the jaws will instantly flow. Thirdly, the gag material should be soft and elastic, because it will have to stick its teeth into the ball. Take care of your teeth, they will still be useful to you.
Another type of gags - ring or struts. The mouth is not blocked with them, but it will not be possible to talk, because it does not close. Use on a person who trusts you, because such objects always cause a keen sense of helplessness, and this pleasure brings only with real proximity. But the rings and struts leave access to oral sex. Men can use any kind of comfortable, women - the ring, because it is easy to spit it out if what is happening becomes uncomfortable.
A man with a gag in his mouth should be ready to drool, as, incidentally, his partner. Even so: To the saliva. Most gags do not normally swallow, so much saliva accumulates. Hence the requirement for air in the mouth - in the opposite direction will flow. Also, never put a person in a gag on his back - he may suffocate from an excess of saliva, or they will cause gagging (and the gag has not yet been removed!). In general, drooling is good and means that everything is more or less in order.
The gag involves hands tied, but both are better to keep conditionally fixed. The safest gag is on a wide soft tape (for example, from neoprene) on a velcro fastener. It can be removed by yourself if something goes wrong. Hands can also be tied, but not tightly for ease. You play, right? Therefore, the rules can be executed formally. In difficult situations, it is suggested to negotiate a stop word in advance, but you will not particularly chat with your mouth shut, so agree on movements, or, for example, you can pick up a bell. Any sound of it is a sign to complete cessation of action.
But to buy a gag is not necessary, you can always use the available tools. But so that arbitrariness does not end tragically, remember the main rules. The gag should be soft. A ribbon, a tie, or even a T-shirt — no hard objects to get hurt. You can hurt the edges of the mouth or mucous membrane, and even break his teeth. This is not entertainment, but self-harm.
Another important rule for homemade gags is that everything should be more or less clean and not contain anything dangerous in itself or on itself. For example, on a T-shirt, in which they painted the wall, traces of paint remain, and they are not for ingestion - not for ingestion, nor for inhalation for a long time. Therefore, even if the passion dismantled you suddenly, move to a more suitable place and find safe objects.
A self-made gag should consist strictly of one object, only then can you keep everything under control - regardless of whether you are wearing it or you are wearing it. In particular, this means that you either gag or put something inside, but do not mix it. The movie "Sweetie" with Rose McGowan begins with bugs in the muzzle and leads to tragedy: a girl is shoved in the mouth with a ping-pong ball and gagged, the heroine chokes and dies.
In general, it is better to tie, than to thrust, and a narrow bandage, leaving mouth access for breathing, preferably wider on half of the face. First, it is difficult to suffocate. Secondly, it is easy to spit out a neat and not very wide dressing. Thirdly, a narrow bandage is a soft version of a snaffle, and with urgent need you can even say something.
What exactly you should not do is use an adhesive tape instead of a gag. Skin irritation from the glue, tearing off the adhesive tape is just as painful as waxing hair removal, and a wide seal does not allow you to breathe through your mouth or talk. A little fit of rhinitis - and hello. The only option - a special vinyl tape, which is glued only to itself, but not to the skin. It looks like a scotch, but it will have to be wrapped around your head instead of a silver cine strip from cheek to cheek.
If you still want to just shove something in your mouth, then choose a thing by the size of no more than half of the female fist. That is, thong panties - go, but the family size 56th for the most part should hang from the mouth out.
Well, the simplest, but also the most important rule that summarizes all of the above: do not do with a loved one anything that you would not want to do with you, and always obtain your consent beforehand. And you yourself will be more whole, and the chances that your partner will like it and will want to repeat it will rapidly grow.
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